Is This The Commen Problem Made By Parents And Faced By Children?

I am really sick of this problem

for me, it's not a nonsense,

but a truth

Too many things to talk,

don't know start from where~

1st,

I pity nowadays children

their lessons are more difficult than us

compare with us when we were in the same age last time.

So as a results,

they are forced to study these things which are "said to be important" for their future

Yeah I do not deny that, study is important for them

but unfortunately,

their "childhood" are completely destroyed by their "future"

Parents always expect their child to be the best

I do not deny this,because it's a fact

every parents hope that,

but at the same time,

they will do anything, no matter good or bad,

or for them, are "said to be" the best, for their children.

I really sick of some words/ sentences,

which are used by parents to force? hurt? or "kill" their children

1. 你几岁了？这么简单的东西还不会？/ How old are you? how come you do not know about this easy matter?

For me, hey, there is no such things. There's no a table or info which stated that, you must be able to master something in a specific age. even me, or even you parents! are not able to do so. If you give me, Or I give you parents a primary standard's paper, you might not get full marks! If you cant, please stop using this sentence!

2.你应该要会/懂/知道 You should/must know!

In this world, there's never never a Should or Must. You will blame us for not understanding something which are "said to be" easy. Hey, if we do know everything, the school can close, we do not need to go to school, and you can call us God. For me, the word "should" is used to "kill" us, children. You will use the word "should" to cover everything, in order to take care of your"face". "you should know this, therefore there's no reasons" this sentence, is a cruel "murderer"!

3.为什么做错？一定是一面看cartoon一面做，改天不用开电视。/ why you do the question wrongly? you must be watching TV and do your work at the same time,next time, I do not allow you to on television.

Hey, do you parents have CCTV at home? Parents likes to "think according to their thinking" you get what I mean? What appears in their mind, that mean what we are doing. although we are not doing that. I know, you take care of us, but, can you please start a conversation in a gentle way? " what are you doing just know? how come you do your work like this?" this is much better~

1 thing, I really cannot tahan,

that is,

when a parents scold a child until he/she cries,

they will always use this sentence:" stop that noise or else you will get extra punishment!"

For me, most of the parents do this.

HEY! please, have some general knowledge,

do you know that,

Sobbing is normal when you cry.

You make them to make the "noise"

and you ask them to stop that,

It's like I broke your tibia(leg's bone)

and I ask you to run, can you?

of course me and you SHOULD know the answer

I use the word SHOULD because I do have this type of general knowledge!

do you read newspaper?

I read about an article,

"you harm a child if you stop them from sobbing, because you prohibit them to give vent to their mood."( I hope this sentence is correct)

So please, you can teach us,

but not blame us without using your brain,

I know this sentence is rude,

but I think that I need to say this,

because we children do have the right to tell you all about our opinion,

we cant change anything since we do not have the right to do so,

but you must understand how we feel.

NEXT

Exams..

I made a hypothesis here:

Exams kill children.

Observation:

whenever the exam papers are taken back from school,

Most of the parents(not all)

will look for the marks which they expect their child to obtained.

And they always look at the lowest mark, I do not know why.

when we get a high marks for any of our subject,

we get nothing but this:" this is what you should get."

again! SHOULD!

but whenever we get a low mark, you will surely kena

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And sometimes even worse,

if we get 98, some(not all) parents will said,

where is the 2 marks? you should get full.

OMG~

So?

what is the matter now?

Parents never satisfied!

I do not joke, I believe that you guys knows this kind of situation also.

we never get praise for the good results we get

but we get scold for the bad result we get.

I do not know, whether you all get a very good result during your studies time

Maybe you all so professional,

never get bad results before~

I will not be a parents like this!

I know I do not have the right to comment about you all's action.

I respect you,

so I do not say anything.

but when I keep quite,

doesn't mean that I agreed with what you all do/did/done.

I am actually wondering whether want to post this or not,

but I think I must tell you that that is the problem faced by nowadays children

And this is my blog,

I have the right to post anything I want,

I do not specifically post this to someone,

I post to all the parents.

And I wanna ask a question, Only Malaysian parents do this=.=?

I love my parents,

I love our condition now,

I love this kind of relationship,

And I hope it can getting better and better.

That's all I want to share with you all,

PARENTS PLEASE HAVE A LOOK FOR THIS POST

今日金句：.和什么样的人相处，久而久之，就会有相同的味道。我们要靠近玫瑰，吸收它的芬芳，再把香味带给大家。

BFA exams...

woke up at 6.00a.m.

went to the grave for扫墓

my dad asked me why don't bring the camera.

I thought that kind of places are not suppose to bring.

since he ask like that,

I will bring next year^^

back to the topic,

i took my BFA exam 2day.

the theory, for me is ok.

after that,

went to practical

Everything is OK

but until the part of CPR..........

He ask me a lot of question which I do not know how to answer

Sir:" Can you speak English?"

Me:" Oh sure.."

"You learn BFA for how long already?"

"The course that day."

"That mean you are new la?"

"Ya."

"So...when we do CPR?"

"Er...when the casualty is unconscious, and do not have breathing."

"If the casualty got breathing but the breathing is very weak, do we do CPR?"

"Er...er...er..." (I do not answer)

"We must check the heart beat if there is no heart beat then only we do CPR."

"Oh...ok"

"Then you swho me CPR now."

So I started

"Hello hello are you ok?"

"Wait wait wait..before that what must you do?"

"Oh..oh...I make sure the place is safe"( I forgot...too nervous...)

"Ok."

Now I made a mistake! after check breathing I straight want to give compression.

Luckily I suddenly remember I haven't give 2 blows...

"Sorry..sorry..I give 2 blows" =.=/// so paise...

Then finally finished 5 cycles.

"Boy come here"

"Normally we need to complete this 5 cycles in how long time?"

"Er...2minutes?"

"Are you sure?"( I scared)

"Er...er..er...sir do u mean..."

He repeated his ques

I still give the answer..2minutes

"Are you sure is 2 minutes?"

"Yes I am sure."

"Ok."

"If you blow, the air doesn't goes in, what you do?"

"Head-tilt Chin-lift?"( I tembak)

"Yea..correct"

"When we stop CPR?"

"Er...When the docter arrived, when we are exhausted"

"what else?"

(I forgot..stop for few seconds...)"Until the casualty recovered"

"Ya la..until he recovered"

"When you blow you look at what?"

"Er...er...er...look at the chest?"

"For what?"

"To make sure tha air can goes in"

"Yeah..."

So many question arh...

I do not know whether my answers can be accepted or not.

Hopefully I can pass arh...

Please ar...

Must pass arh...

When I looked at the paper in his hand,

I couldn't see my results

But I could see the previous person's result

All "WEAK"

OMG...OMG...OMG...

I hope he forgot about that column...

PASS ARH!!!

阿弥陀佛~

今日金句：来自环境的挑战，不应使我们挫折，这一切的磨炼只会促使我们更坚强、更有活力。你或许正面对生活中的磨难，不要灰心，坚定地面对，让自己越挫越勇，以致更加的成熟及成长。

突然~这种感觉...

话总说不清楚~该怎么明了~

一字一句像圈套~

是的，林俊杰《背对背拥抱》

每次听这首歌，

都会难免想起我们的过去。

曾几何时，

我们在一起。

曾几何时，

我们一起努力。

曾几何时，

我们的好多一起~一起~一起~

你的双手甩开刚好的微妙~

又是何时开始，

感觉你在逃。

感觉不到你的温暖，

感觉不到你的关心，

感觉不到你的在意，

更感觉不到，

你的用心。

你甩开的，不再是刚好的微妙

我们背对背拥抱~

滥用沉没在暴啸~

我的选择，是开口。

而你的选择，是沉没。

答应好的“一起解决”

一切只是纸上谈“情”

以微笑开始，

以沉没结束，

我们背对背拥抱~

真话兜着圈子乱乱绕~

从来不怀疑你的每一句话，

但你却没实现你所谓的“实话”

只是想让我知道~

只是想让你知道~

爱的警告~

可惜，

这警告来得太迟了。

真的，已经太迟了。

因为，你放弃了。

前几期的学海，

1.“你是否为了配合对方而抛弃了自我？”

2.“我们总是要自己的另一半符合自己的需求：好还要更好，仿佛努力了还不够。”

3.“当你开口希望对方董事一点时，你有没有想到对方的需求？”

1.我为了配合你，的确付出了许多。至于你，我不敢肯定。

2.很明显，对你来说我是不够好，不然你也不会说掰掰~

3.当你开口希望我体谅你时，你有没有想到我的需求？

哈哈哈哈~没什么，只是突然有这种感觉，我没事，我很肯定。

不是针对任何人写的，

只是纯粹自己的感觉。

把这种感觉记住，

以后就不会再犯同样的错误。

我不会再犯~我发誓。

因为你，给了我很大的教训。

不知道接下来的会是谁，

但，我想告诉你，

我可以为你真心付出，

但请你要懂得珍惜我。

今日金句：冒险，不是想着会失去什么，而是去思考会得到什么。

2day's event

2day we have a farewell for our formal principal

he is going to another school which is in high level

Congratulation to him^^

actually before the farewell,

I really hope he can go

but then today,

I feel like want him to stay here~

Maybe our discipline will be control well if he still here

now,

waiting for all the doors in the toilet to be broken~

waiting for all the wall in the school to be fill with "arts"

after that I had a science competition

with Dean Mag Pravind Vinod and also a a few girls

we did until half then go for a break

after that we went to pusat ekses

until~~~

school break^^

haha...so enjoy when stay at there,

with air-conditioner some more

after that me and my sis waiting bus at the bus stop

We skip the 1st bus,

to wait for my dad's car

but then the bus stop left me and my sis 2 persons there

now an Indian came

He sit at the bus stop

we ignore him, he ignore us~

suddenly

"hey,...wei...hello...wai...wei...oi..."

I know he was calling us, but I refuse to give any responds

but finally I turn my head and look at him.

I walk near him,

he ask me a question

"bla~bla~bla~bla~"

"har?"

"bla~bla~bla~bla~"

"apa tu?"

"bla~bla~bla~bla~"

"apa?"

finally I heard some word

"umur"

then I tell la...I am form 4

then he tell me a lot of things

which I cant understand

he talks so much to me..

I just look at him,

then he suddenly "haha" smile to me

then me also "haha" smile to him

but I do not understand=.=///

then he keep talking there, and nod his head to me

I also "O..O..O.." nod back to him

but I do not understand=.=///

then suddenly laugh again,

I laugh together

but I do not understand=.=///

then a City Liner came

me n my sis quickly took the bus and sayonara to him

After I reach home,

I saw Avanza there...

That mean if I keep waiting there,

I don't know I need to wait until what time...

今日金句：言论大可自由，事实不可歪曲。

To those who visit my blog

I really appreciate those who came here to visit my blog.

I do not really know who are you,

Because my visitors keep increasing but nobody write anything in the shoutbox or give me any comment

But I really feel happy,

when I see the increasing number of visitors

I really want to say thank you

Maybe you are my friends,

Maybe you are my parents,

Maybe you are just a passerby,

And maybe is "you"

My special visitor

If you do visit here,

Hey..

Thanks^^

I will keep updating my blog,

so you all will not feel boring

I hope you all enjoy to read here,

And if possible please write something for me in the shoutbox,

so that this blog will be "alive"

Thanks for you all supports^^

今日金句: 惟有从内心而来的平安才是真正平安，外表固然可以装一装，但蒙骗不了自己的。你最近是否失去了应有的平安？勇敢地去面对你遭遇的问题，当内心越勇敢，平安就来到，而恐惧也会消失得无影无踪。

Results...

WOOHOO^^

I get my 1st C 2day=.=///

Below are my results:

BM = 73%

BC = 66%

BI = 82%

MM = 92%

SJ = 75%

CHM= 66%

PHY = 85%

BIO = 59%

IM = 75%

Add Mth = 88%

SV = 90%

I think these are the subjects we took.

I get a C for my favourite subject

so weird...

but whose problem is that??

How can I get 0% for the last section??

Impossible...

I will figure out

Quite satisfied with my 1st test,

I will keep it up^^

今日金句：在艰难的时候应充满信心。我们应具有坚强的意志和勇气！火热的心永远要燃烧！光明的前程属于奋斗不息的人。

2nd day of St.John course~

Yesterday was St.John's course for the second day

So as usual we went to Chung Hua

maybe since the 1st day of the course,

I stared to love this Badan Beruniform

Wow~ 1st time have this feeling~

Love St.John??

Yes^^ I love it

Joe didn't attend at 1st,

he said he was sick

but he was told that,

if he didn't attend for 1 day,

he will not be able to take the exam,

so...he rushed to Chung Hua after we called him.

we finished our lessons in the morning,

we did practical during the afternoon

we did a lot of practical,

which I enjoy to learn

Then now...Joe started his "job"

his job is to make a person who wear singlet to look for jacket...

do you all get what I mean?

HAHA...

We need to ask the casualty before we give any help

normally we will said

" Hello, My name is Lim, I am a St.John member, I will help you now, can I help you?"

but our friend, Joe...

He said like this

" Hello, my name is Chong Joe Fai. I am one of the St.John member from Malaysia...=.=///"

hello brother...whoever in Malaysia don't know that you are in Malaysia?

then make us laugh

included the skill leader~

that is all for today,

I will take the exam this Sunday,

Wish me all the best^^

I must pass the exam!!

Good Luck!!!

今日金句：做人如做耗油，要懂变通，独占一位哪会进步？人要知足，但发展事业则不能满足，永远要有创业的心怀。

1st day of St.John Course

ok well 1st day of the course,

I learnt many things

Really learnt many things and enjoy myself,

it's not boring but interesting...

although I scare about the injury incident(if really happend)

so...

the 1st day of course

we learnt Primary survey,Secondary survey

Choking and also CPR

and the words we always use 2day,

"Mr. are you ok?? Sir are u ok? can u hear me? can u open your eyes?"

"You! go and call 999 for ambulance and report back to me!"

"now I open the airway by head-tilt-chin-lift..."

"I check the breathing by look listen and feel~"

really enjoyable,

because I love Bio also

haha..

I will try my best to learn the "balutan"

the part I scare the most..

I do not really know how to balut here and there..

I hope to catch up soon.

very very soon~

Wish me all the best^^

And hope I can past my exams without any trouble

That's all for tonight,

Good Night^^

今日金句：聪明难，糊涂难，由聪明而变为糊涂更难。放一着，退一步，当下心安，非求后来之福报也。

Feeling weird~

2moro and the day after 2moro,

is St.John course's days.

I do not really know,

why I afraid of it.

It's because I scare I cant do well,

Or there's another reasons,

which I do not really know...

weird hor? =.=///

I hope to pass the exam this year,

I want to wear the uniform !

The damn smart uniform!!

I really hope I can do well...

Although I feel scare,

I will try my best to do it.

Others can, why I cant??

I think I can do it.

By the way,

Will I accidentally "meet" her??

I do not really know whether I want to meet her or not.

haha..

Let's see what's going on 2moro.

Wish me all the best,

Goodbye and Goodnight^^

今日金句：在悲观主义者眼中，世界即使是晴空万里也会想象成狂风暴雨；在乐观主义者那里，窗外即使是寒风刺骨，心中照样有一股热情在奔涌。

Wa...Katak Katak Katak

well...as you all know that my house always full of animals~

Recently, a lot of frogy came to my house~

that day, when I want to drink water..........

can you all see what is that??

Make it bigger~

Bigger~

YES! That's it!

Disgusting right?

I caught some and thew them away~

but I do not really know,

they came back themselves,

or their"children"...

my whole family scared of them,

but I do not care^^

今日金句：什么是你生命中最宝贵的财产？是金钱、名利，还是家庭幸福、健康的身体？仔细地想想，你就会知道财富的意义。

初五拜年团

wow so nice my friend 1st time came to my house for Chinese New Year^^

手不离机~（手机）

watching TV^^

watching TV^^

card card card~

Dota-ing with Vinod

Dota-ing with CC Chong

Of course facebook-ing~

this 2 ...手不离机~（相机）

He kena also...

talking about this...when we all went to the pond in front of my house, this 2 suddenly disappear..

like never see this type of round things~

Talking about this~~~Chua and Ping like never see Tree...lol

they said very cool~ cool? erm...I have been seeing it for almost 10year+...

my sis难逢知己~

ok this is the end of the jouney to my house^^

then we went to Taman Indah~

NextDestination

CC house

well the part I love the most at CC's house is this pond..damn nice!

all like to play cards...they took my house 1 and combine with CC's 1..

but then stared to rain...

our hero finally came^^

lucky guy^^kena denda

lucky girl who kena denda also^^

this is the end at CC' house^^

on the way to next destination

on the way~

this经典 I love^^

next destination>>>>>>>>

Jia Jian's house^^

this guy, everyday dota dota~even when we friends visited him he also lazy to open the door for us=.=///

see! speechless~

who ate until become like this??...hahaha

of course guys are always in front of pc~

The end of Jia Jian's house

同一雨伞下~

Shi Rui's house

干~~~~~~

between this 2，

which 1 better^^

Chua always...

puppy也来凑热闹~

After that Ping stops their journey, so...we guys cont to the next house^^

Ling Xuan's house

ok well....Big Bo always fiding for food~

again~ card and card and card~

This 2 guy~

make Chua crying..

The end of Ling Xuan's house^^

And this is our last destination also.

ok abit disgusting, but ...as a memory la^^

Back Home

eat pizzas XD

Here are some funny videos^^

Hope you all enjoy them^^

next year, we will have this again~

今日金句：用心灵的眼睛去看自己的家人，用心灵的耳朵试着聆听他们的心声。